15 Things Your Guests Secretly Judge About Your Home

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Walking into someone’s home opens a window into their personal life. When guests come in, they see more than paint color or furniture style. They notice, they enjoy, they judge, each room telling a story. I don’t know that most guests are looking to be critical, but there are things that do catch their eye. These are often the details that stand out: whether it’s a mess that throws the vibe off or something that doesn’t quite fit.

Thought your home was heaven? Not to make you paranoid, but here are some common places that guests might silently raise an eyebrow when they walk into your space.

Dirty Dishes

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A first impression can be made or broken by the kitchen sink. No matter how small, a pile of dirty dishes tells guests there’s unfinished business. Whether it’s a single coffee cup or a stack of breakfast dishes, seeing grime where they should be cleanliness can make guests uneasy. They might not say anything, but they’ll notice if dishes sit in the sink.

Pet Hair Everywhere

Visitors don’t always feel the same as we love our pets. A stray pet hair on the couch, rug or even in the air will send a subtle message that things aren’t as tidy as they could be. Some people just don’t like to share their seat with tufts of fur, and some are allergic. A quick session with a vacuum cleaner goes a long way before guests arrive.

Bathroom Cleanliness

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A messy bathroom is one of the few things that can make a guest feel more uncomfortable. Bathroom cleanliness (or lack thereof) screams from a grungy toilet bowl to toothpaste splatters on the mirror or molds on the wall. A spotless bathroom even if guests won’t use it, makes people feel fresh and comfortable.

Personalized Clutter

Your knick knacks, souvenirs and trinkets may be sentimental, but too much of it can make a room feel cramped and cluttered. They don’t want to feel like guests at a museum or an overly decorated home. Showing only a few meaningful pieces on display keeps the space inviting, without overloading visitors.

Dusty Corners and Cobwebs

Dust likes to hide in plain sight. Dust often ends up in corners, windowsills, and shelves, and guests will see it instantly. Eye catching, but not in a good way, are cobwebs in a room’s corners. Quick touch ups can make a big difference if you keep a duster handy.

Odd or Overwhelming Smells

Every home has a different smell, but it’s important to keep it nice. Guests don’t like to smell cooking odors, pet smells, or just general mustiness. To make it nice and inviting, add a little bit of a gentle air freshener, a fresh flowers like lavender, or a fresh scented candle.

Cluttered Entryway

Shoes, bags, and miscellaneous items should not be left in the entryway. The entryway is a home’s first impression and clutter can make the it feel chaotic. As they walk in, guests want to feel welcome, not like they’re tripping over things. If you keep this area neat and inviting, guests will feel like they’re walking into a well loved space.

Visible Trash or Overflowing Garbage

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An overflowing trash can says “I didn’t have time to prepare” like nothing else. Visible garbage is an immediate turnoff, wherever it may be — in the kitchen, bathroom or elsewhere. A quick check and a fresh trash bag before guests arrive will keep this awkward impression at bay.

Overly Dim or Harsh Lighting

According to Lights.com, lighting creates a mood in any room. However, the wrong lighting makes guests feel uncomfortable. A dark room makes it feel gloom and unwelcoming. If it is too bright, it feels like a waiting room. Warm, gentle lighting can help a space feel cozy and relaxing, just right for guests.

Unmade or Untidy Beds

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Always take care of your bedrooms, because you never know when a guest will come by. If the bed is unmade, it send s a message that things are not fully put together. Made bed with nice smooth sheets and fluffed pillows can be subtle way to show that you care about your space.

Toilet Paper Running Low

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This is a small thing, but having a nearly empty roll of toilet paper in the bathroom is an awkward thing for your guests. This is one of those details that if forgotten will stick with you. Having an extra roll on hand or on display prevents any uncomfortable situations.

Clashing Decor Styles

A home that has a decor style that isn’t consistent can feel a little chaotic or jarring. If you have farmhouse decor in one room and ultra modern in another, it can confuse the flow and feel of your space. This mix of themes may seem a bit disjointed to guests, as if it’s not all part of one cohesive style.

Empty or Neglected Spaces

Sometimes unused rooms or corners feel a bit lonely. Guests will notice if a part of the room or even an entire room seems forgotten. Something as simple as a little touch, like a cozy chair, a little plant, can bring to life the forgotten corner.

Personal Items Left Out

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Mail, medications and laundry are sometimes left out, making guests feel they’re eavesdropping on private matters. You may like to have everyday essentials out, but tucking them away before the guest comes by will end up creating a polished and thoughtful impression.

Worn-out Furniture or Decor

Worn furniture might be noticed along with old decor. Sagging cushions on a sofa or faded curtains can make the room feel as if it hasn’t been used in a while. You don’t have to buy new furniture all the time, but a few small changes can keep the space feeling new.

Disclaimer: This list is solely the author’s opinion based on research and publicly available information.